Highly feminine women read you like a book. So if you have a guilty conscience from looking at porn it will repulse these wild beauties.

You may think you can get away with it but the more you look at porno the further you get from the real experience. Even if you have a partner already... if she's highly feminine the energy you emanate is repulsing her. This is the hard truth.

A big issue is that porn is so easy to access. It's always at your fingertips and there are triggers everywhere in this world.

It's almost impossible to get away from it. That's exactly how I felt for 20 years in the grip of porn addiction.

Bottom line is I didn't even see porn as a problem. That's why it gripped me for so long.

You may also not see it as a problem. Well it is a problem. Why? If you're single it's pushing you further from getting laid. If you're in a relationship it hinders the depth of intimacy.

The quality of your mind is diminishing through the world's most powerful drug. This has become normalised because it's so readily available. It's too easy.

Research shows that 33% of men between 18 and 30 hasn't had sex in the past year. This study also predicts that by 2040, 45% of women between 25 and 45 will be single and childless.

I was in a marriage for 11 years and my partner of that time had an issue with me looking at porn. I just thought it was normal that every guy looks at porn so I justified it.

I did make an effort to stop but I turned to it especially when my partner didn't want to have sex. Truth is, porn is an escape from negative emotional states.

It's a way of running from yourself. But why not correct the problem at the source? That's been my quest for several years.

At the end of my relationship with my partner I faced the fear of the unknown. I was suddenly single after 11 years and I really value having a lover so this was a bit daunting for me. So what did I do about it?

I dedicated all of my energy to self betterment and growth. I swore to become my absolute best version of myself for a high quality love partner. That said I quit the porn and consumed knowledge steadily on dating, being single, divine masculinity and spirituality.

I went from being driven and controlled by compulsive desires (lust) to monk mode. I got reclusive for a good year and didn't connect with any women.

The one time I did go out was to a Beltane dance. Long story short several girls ended up in my DM's the next day. I knew that something had changed drastically in me. The work that I was doing on myself was paying off.

Girls were magnetized to me by nature it seemed. I barely did anything and it seemed they were drawn to me from all angles.

It's because the highly feminine can feel you. If you have a mind full of lust you emanate repulsive energy.

I was clean and clear of that energy the night I went out. I was almost too disinterested in women.

In fact that night there was this Goddess like pyrotechnic girl. My friend informed me she was clearly trying to seduce me. She danced masterfully and ecstatically in front of me but I hardly paid her attention.

My mind was set on having integrity. I had purified my sexual energy and remained true to my date. My date's friend wanted me too. She later became my girlfriend.

Another woman from that night and I started chatting after the dance. She was a model and eventually shared naked modeling shots of herself with me. Although she was attractive I was turned off by the sexual mindset she had.

The point is girls were literally throwing themselves at me. I did nothing special. It was just my vibe.

After 4 years off the porn I now see considerable difference in the person I am today. My confidence has transformed which helps me huge as an introvert.

I now feel much more at ease with being alone between relationships. In the past I'd be constantly looking and efforting my way to a lover. I feel much more complete on my own without neediness.

As an introvert this serves me tremendously. I typically like to keep to myself and don't often get out socialising. When I do though... look out ladies! haha

On a serious note I do scan Tinder often enough because I enjoy it. I'm no longer in monk mode and feel most connected to my sexual energy than ever.

These days I have multiple women in my DM's on the regular. I'm pretty grateful at the transformation that I underwent that has resulted in that.

I really feel it in this moment because I went from repulsive to magnetic with women. Life is magnetism.

When your vibes are true you attract true women. Goddesses in fact. I'm literally connecting with a Goddess as we speak.

I matched with her on Tinder and she's all into me as I am her. She's been through her own personal and spiritual growth. We both feel the blessing of this sacred union that is forming.

It feels as though I'm on the brink of a serious love relationship.

These things take time of course but the idea is that I'm happy with the magnetism I've realised in myself.

The same rules apply for women to attract men of high quality. Everything in this life is frequency specific. Like attracts like. Be the partner you want to attract.

After struggling (and not knowing it) with porn I've finally reached that higher ground.

Here are the tools I used to get there:

The Goddess Magnet Formula

1) Focus on long term gain

Realise that you're the only one in the way of yourself to connect with a real hottie. You can look at porn all you want but you're losing the battle of real connection.

Porn doesn't lead to happiness. In fact it depletes you on a regular basis of the most powerful energy available to humans.

This energy can instead be retained by practising semen retention (optional). It's used to achieve great success as per Think and Grow Rich (chapter 6 - sexual transmutation).

This energy when held is also conducive to driving you toward making real connection. It is a force of motivation to step out of your comfort zone and network with potential lovers.

Porn use fuels jealousy. When my ex and I split I wanted to avoid feeling jealous about her being with others.

So I cut the porn because it feeds your mind with graphic imagery that will not let you be. You're so immersed in that mindset that it haunts you.

I didn't want to wonder in that way about my ex partner because I still had feelings for her. The feelings were mostly physical because I loved her bod.

Stopping the porn alleviated hard jealousy. I instead embraced the path of long term gain. So here I am 4 years later clean and clear of porn without relapse.

2) Delete access

Remove all access to porn that you currently have because when things are out of sight, they are out of mind. This includes bookmarks, magazines and saved files on your computer.

The more inconvenient you make it the less readily available it is.

3) Transition your mind to purity

You can still masturbate if you feel the need but without the use of porn. The need to masturbate will surface much more at the beginning of this journey.

Your mind will be dirty for the beginning of the transformation but slowly move it toward purity. When you masturbate instead of looking at porn now you may imagine a woman.

This will get you used to finding sexual arousal through real women instead of artificial imagery. The next stage is to be able to masturbate without thinking of a woman.

This makes you independent of others for sexual arousal. This is a rare place but entirely possible with practise.

4) Semen retention

As mentioned this tool allows you to channel your most powerful energy into your mission/life's work. You can still masturbate but instead you can practice what I call "edging".

This is where you get yourself close to orgasm and then you stop. This tool is used to last longer in sex as well.

Not only that but the energy that surges through you is raw masculine energy. You are charging your sexual battery for magnetism.

This energy can last for 24-48 hours from my experience. If you have a date it can help you detach from the outcome of the date.

It also lends itself to staying grounded within and not becoming self conscious on dates. This energy also heals you from within but it should be used sparingly.

Anything in moderation is a good thing but when overused it loses it's effect. Self control is a foundational masculine quality. He who practices discipline reaps long term reward.

5) Remember the outcome

This part of overcoming porn is the most crucial. You must remember that the reason you're doing this is to get with real girls.

At the same time it is equally crucial to remember that the more often you look at porn the further you get from that. You must be consequential.

There will be greater challenge in the beginning and you may slip up a few times. Forgive yourself because this is a process.

Deeply ingrained habits can take time to overcome. That's normal. Remember that the more you practice abstaining from this habit the higher your vibration becomes.

You're no longer filling your mind with filthy images and ideas. Your mind is purifying. You can still have strong interest in women.

You biological needs will remain but you will be driven to succeed with real women instead.

With these tools and the right focus I'm confident in you that you will succeed. Quitting porn transforms you from the inside out. It has the power to improve your marriage, to attract love and to keep love.

If you want permanent results right away I offer counselling to get you through this in 60 days or less. There's much more detail with each of the steps and I hold you accountable through the process.

Book a free 15 minute discovery call at the calendly link below to get started. It's 100% confidential and rest assured I fully relate to being trapped in this addiction. I know how normal it has become so you're not alone.

I’m flexible on timing too so if you don’t find a time you’re welcome to DM me on twitter for options (@kush_wood).

May this set you free into real blissful love.

Peace out!

Kush Wood