The most powerful motivational energy already exists inside of you. How you use it drastically changes the course of your life; however, 99% of people waste that energy regularly. It's the hidden secret in every religion that few people know.

That secret is the sex drive. There's nothing accessibly more powerful. There's a chapter in Think and Grow Rich dedicated to sexual transmutation which reaffirms this.

It is the most unrelenting power for creativity and motivation. When used correctly this energy fuels you to great heights in business and personal development.

How you use your sexual energy dictates who you are and who you are becoming. Thus it is crucial to have control and channel that energy to the right areas of your life.

If you consume porn regularly you are consistently depleting that energy. This leaves you empty of motivation and creativity.

This not only applies to creativity in art but also finding creative ways to solve your life's problems. As a songwriter I experienced both ends of the coin.

In the past I consumed porn regularly and my creativity was limited. Additionally my motivation to create was low as well. I didn't truly know the difference until I kicked the porn habit.

For 20 long years I didn't even know how porn was affecting my life. It's become normal for men to consume porn thus I felt justified. That's the trap.

Now after 4 years without porn in my life the tables have turned on many accounts; however, the focal point here is creativity and motivation.

So during this 4 year stretch I am living life with unwasted energy. This allows me the strength to endure single parenting 4 kids for 50% of my time.

The fact that I keep my physique athletic definitely offers me the capacity to be a beast-mode caretaker.

In a professional sense I've been creating a mix of articles, short form writing and songwriting daily for the past 9 months without missing a day. This is all without payment.

Presently I have 25 long form articles averaging from 2k - 3k words each. In addition to that I have 3000 pieces of written and musical content across 4 social media platforms.

So between single parenthood, strength training and professional growth there's a drive in me that can't be stopped. I don't miss a single day.

As I write this I'm starting an even more accelerated path for professional growth. I'm ramping up my hours of daily work.

Time is money as they say and the more time you invest in something the more it grows. I was lucky that in the past I had passive income so I didn't have to work too much to live life.

This was beneficial because I consumed porn in that time which limited my motivation considerably. I was not using my sexual energy well.

It was being wasted and depleted on the regular. When you release your seed often you feel satisfied, docile and without the need to make life better.

This was the constant state that I revisited as a porn user. It was a cycle of mediocrity.

I only sometimes got motivated to create music and it was usually in the face of challenges in my relationship. In challenge comes the opportunity for awakening.

There's no motivation to change anything in life when you're too comfortable. That's the big trap with porn is that it keeps you comfortable and satisfied.

So the never ending cycle of dissatisfaction and misery continues. You appease your ephemeral urge and then it's back to sadness.

This is the road I didn't even know I was on for 20 years. I thought it was just the normal existence of a human life. Porn is normalized.

Many men suffer it's consequences without knowing exactly what those consequences are. They're too wrapped up in escaping the negative emotions through porn which reaffirms the vicious cycle.

It wasn't until my life fell apart and I lost my spouse that I decided it was time to take control of my life. So I did just that.

It was a difficult journey but there was nothing I wanted more than to rise above the miserable tendency to consume porn among other flaws. It was the sure path to accomplish very little in life.

Life can be uncomfortable at times and porn serves as what seems to be a pleasurable solution. Unfortunately it is too short lived to be any kind of benefit and comes with massive side effects.

It leads back to the familiar lack of motivation, self confidence and drive to make your life better. I know this because when I finally broke free my life changed.

The changes are significant to someone who doesn't see you every day. They were subtle to me though because they're so gradual.

The reality is that my confidence has changed as well as my ability to attract women without doing anything special. I feel that I'm more comfortable being myself.

I'm not much of a social person to begin with. I tend to prefer my own space most of the time but when I do go out in social settings I am magnetic.

The last time I went out to a beltane dance in my area I ended up with multiple girls from the gathering in my DMs the next day. I hardly did anything besides a few short interactions.

No pick up lines or any game tactics. Just being my natural self without the taint of a lustful mind.

This told me that I had conquered something big within me. I normally had too much social anxiety to make natural conversation with women.

I used to prefer not talking to women and just hoped they'd be drawn to me somehow magically. That was the days of using porn regularly.

There was no draw to me like there is now. And it takes nothing but cleaning up your vibes. Vibes are everything in this world.

The feminine is highly intuitive so she can sense your tainted lust vibes. It emanates off of you whether you like it or not.

I lived it for 20 years so I'm well aware of the difference. After 4 years off the porn I lifted the barrier of communication with the feminine.

How I did it was I used the energy that I'd otherwise be wasting through porn consumption. Yes the sexual drive. I fueled myself into a better, more socially magnetic person.

It invoked me into action to rectify my flaws by seeking guidance to make my life greater in all faucets to attract a quality partner. I purchased courses and implemented divine masculine principles.

I took the time to heal inner tension and become acutely aware of the quality of my mind. I researched business avenues, purchased courses and launched into action on my chosen mission.

The end goal of this is to attract a divine lover. I take my time with that though and dedicate myself to my life's work to help other men thrive.

I also practice the capacity to accept being alone indefinitely until a high quality love arrives. I will not settle until my standards are met.

A man's purpose in life is his mission. The feminine is attracted naturally to a man who follows his mission. It's a bi-product of pursuing your life's work.

Discarding porn from my life has put me in a position of realizing my worth. It has launched me into action in all areas to improve the quality of my life spiritually, mentally and physically.

So how do I stay away from porn in order to fuel my best life? Here's the formula:

The 5 Keys to an Empowered Life

1) Set intentions

Intentions are everything in life. When you intend to stop watching porn you are deciding to take a different direction in your life.

It's a decision to invest in yourself instead of masking your problems. When you have an intention you now have direction for where you want to go.

With a sense of direction you're now stepping into your masculine power. Have a vision and stick to it.

2) Live in the moment

It's your ego that keeps you wanting and needing more in your life. It keeps you in a continual state of dissatisfaction.

That's the loud voice in your head called thoughts. Thinking is a disease.

Most thoughts are useless or even worse they're a disservice. Negative loops of thought center around the past and future.

In the past there's regret and in the future there's upcoming problems to worry about. Neither of them exist.

The only thing we ever have is this moment. Most people are always out of it by projecting themselves into the past or future.

Living in another time other than the very moment of life causes you continual pain and tension. If you're always trying to get somewhere else you'll never be happy.

This is why porn often emerges as an escape from never being happy in the present time. When you learn to accept yourself as you are where you are a sense of peace starts to emerge.

Tap into that as much as possible. This is the ultimate road away from a porn habit and into the realization of personal wholeness.

3) Invest in yourself

Give your energy an outlet as you wean off of porn. You'll have plenty of energy for other things that improve your life.

You could use that energy to read about spiritual practices to enhance your love life and business. Reading is the first step but implementing it is where the gold nuggets are.

You could also spend the time going to the gym and developing your physique because a man's body is a hard body. When I quit the porn I started rollerblading again as I loved to do as a kid.

Make time for something you enjoy and pursue it.

4) Meditation

When you feel the urge to watch porn it is crucial to refocus. Meditation is one of the greatest resets. It allows you to dissipate accumulated negative emotions and thoughts.

When you feel tense or stressed, rather than turning to porn turn to meditation. The reason is that it reveals the stress for what it is--an illusion.

Answers to all of life's problems are attainable through meditation. This is why the gnostics say the more you practice meditation the more "aha" moments you have.

So meditation mitigates urges. It also finds solutions to problems you would have otherwise missed with an overactive mind.

5) Embrace true independence

For most of my life when I broke up with my girlfriend I would always want a new relationship as quick as possible. Many people go on the "rebound" to try to get over their lost love.

It's a mistake. It's another escape from yourself.

This is a critically important quest in life: to know your true identity.

Most people identify with their ego which continues to cause them pain.

It causes pain through manifesting feelings of loneliness, self doubt and worry. These are all illusions created on the surface.

It's only the tip of the iceberg. The real you is much bigger than that. You are below the surface of the water, a massive force to reckon with.

Below the surface of negative emotions you are painless, needless and fearless. Tap into that.

Meditation helps with this. It connects you to your subtle yet powerful self.

Realize that you are already whole and complete without needing anything or anyone outside of you. This is true independence.

With these cornerstones in place you have the ability to overcome what's been plaguing your love and business life. You may now begin the journey into your greatest potential.

If you need help implementing these steps I offer 30 days of 1-on-1 support to be sure you see results. Getting over porn was one of the most difficult obstacles I've overcome but I did it.

I now have the road map to share with you because I've been in your shoes. Please DM me at any of the social media links below to schedule a call or digital chat when you're ready to reach your higher potential.

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In the meantime rise to your power brothers!

Peace,

-Kristien (Kush Wood)

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